Saturday, December 25, 2010

你不懂我,我不怪你

每个人都有一个死角, 自己走不出来,别人也闯不进去。 ­

我把最深沉的秘密放在那里。

你不懂我,我不怪你。 ­

每个人都有一道伤口, ­

或深或浅,盖上布,以为不存在。 ­

我把最殷红的鲜血涂在那里。 ­

你不懂我,我不怪你。 ­

每个人都有一场爱恋, ­

用心、用情、用力,感动也感伤。

我把最炙热的心情藏在那里。 ­

你不懂我,我不怪你。 ­

每个人都有一行眼泪,

喝下的冰冷的水,酝酿成的热泪。 ­

我把最心酸的委屈汇在那里。 ­

你不懂我,我不怪你。 ­

每个人都有一段告白, ­

忐忑、不安,却饱含真心和勇气。 ­

我把最抒情的语言用在那里。 ­

你不懂我,我不怪你。 ­

你永远也看不见我最爱你的时候,

因为我只有在看不见你的时候,才最爱你。 ­

同样, ­

你永远也看不见我最寂寞的时候, ­

因为我只有在你看不见我的时候,我才最寂寞。 ­

也许,我太会隐藏自己的悲伤。

也许,我太会安慰自己的伤痕。

也许,你眼中的我,太会照顾自己 ­

所以,你从不考虑我的感受。 ­

你以为,我可以很迅速的恢复过来,有些自私的以为。 ­

从阴雨走到艳阳,我路过泥泞、路过风。 ­

一路走来,你不曾懂我,我亦不曾怪你。 ­

我不是为了显示自己的大度, ­

也不是为了体现自己的大方。 ­

只想让你知道,感情不在,责备也不存在。

圣诞节

去年的今天,我一张开眼你就在我身边
今年今天,我和你被距离隔离了.
我好想你.
好想,象去年一样吻你的脸庞和你说早安,圣诞节快乐.
好想,抱着你,躺着,哪里都不去.
好想你.
你...想我吗?

Monday, December 20, 2010

Have anyone of you ever had the feeling of hating yourself for saying all the hurtful words to the one you love most. I do. I just can't stop thinking all the negative stuff. I love him so much, but why do I always have this feeling that he will leave me. I don't like this feeling. Makes me cry and feel down. I love him so much. Hubby, I know you love me. Please . . . Don't leave me.

I miss you so much.

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Kiss on the Forehead

I heard that kisses on the forehead means something, like has special meaning and this is what I found from a guy’s point of view:

WHAT DOES FOREHEAD KISSES MEAN?

It means that you’re the most important person for hi, that you are part of his happiness. It means that God only knws the way he feels about you. That he has always loved you, that he loves you and that he will always love you. That he will always be there for you no matter what you say or do. That he will always forgive you.

I'm Back =)

It has been so long since I last blogged.
Life is still harsh.
Ups n Downs still.
Had a big fight with my dad yesterday.
I really dunno why the hell I did tat.

God please do forgive me, for I have sinned.


Friday, October 15, 2010

L.I.F.E

Life is full of challenges and ups and downs . . .
When ever we overcome a challenge in life we grow up a little more
We become more tough and learn from Our mistakes . . .
Never scare to to fail . . .
Don't fail urself if you fail . . .
Take it as a lesson, Learn from failure then you'll win ! ! !
You fail urself you'll NEVER win~

Saturday, October 2, 2010

减肥大作战~!!!(第五天) My 19th Birthday~! ! !

Breakfast: Dutch Lady Low Fat Milk + Apollo Pandan Cake
Lunch:
Dinner: Steamboat ! ! ! (FAT FAT ARGH ! ! )


Happy Birthday to Myself


Friday, October 1, 2010

Falling in love with Jean short skirt & Clutch Bag
OMG ! ! !
Whats wrong with me =3='''

减肥大作战~!!!(第四天)

Breakfast: 1 Dutch Lady Low Fat Milk + 1 Loaker Napolitaner (45g)
Lunch: Ayam Penyet + Hot Green Tea
Dinner: A green Apple + A cup of Coffee


Exercise: 52 sit-ups

Thursday, September 30, 2010

减肥大作战~!!!(第三天)

早餐:两片面包+牛奶
午餐:汉堡+可乐!!(肥死啊!)
晚餐:一片面包+咖啡


继续加油!!!
比基尼身材~!!!
哈哈哈哈哈~~~(疯了)

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

减肥大作战~!!!(第二天)

早餐:一个橙+牛奶
午餐:两片面包+咖啡
晚餐:一片面包+咖啡

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

减肥大作战~!!!(第一天)

早餐:意大利面
午餐:一点的白饭+两种菜
晚餐:两片面包

运动:Sit-up 60下
Push-ups 20下

Monday, September 27, 2010

减肥大作战~!!!!

肥肥肥~~~!!!
我要比基尼身材~!
减肚子!!!
呼呼~~~~~~
减肥肥~~~
拜拜肥肥~!

Monday, September 20, 2010

Dunno what's wrong with me recently . . .
Tiring . . .
Mentally tired . . .
Everything seems to be wrong . . .
Nothing seems right . . .
Why am I always negative?
Why am I always doubting?
Its reli tiring . . .

I hate myself saying all those hurtful words to you . . .
Hate myself for being cruel to you . .
I love you . . .
I really do . . .
But why do I always makes you down?

I reli wonder why am I always like this?
Sorry DarliN~
And really Thank you for always accepting me . . .
I'm so sorry for always quarrel and argue with you . . .

I'm scare of losing you . . .
I'm scare of not having you in my life . . .
I'm scare that you'll get fed up one day and leave me . . .

I need a change . . .
A change for the better . . .
I reli dunno whats wrong with me . . .
I hate being like this . . .

All I want is you by my side . . .
Come back . . .
T^T

I need you badly . . .
=(

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

今天的分離是為了以後更美好的相聚,我相信~♥



我想你了宝贝~

笑着迎接明天的到来

Friday, September 3, 2010

一个人是不可能会同时爱上两个人。
如果你在想 ‘我是不是又爱上另一个人啦?’
其实,并不是的。
你真心爱的只会是一个,那个你很爱很爱的人。
当你在想自己是不是爱上另一个人时,记住我接下来要对你说的话
。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
你只是对那个人精神上暂时的寄托/依赖。
那不是爱,只是暂时的依靠而已。
不要一时的迷惑放弃了自己真心爱的人哦。

-Thanks-

This post is to thanks my bro.
You will never know who he is unless You are him.
XD

Thanks ya
For the meal at McD.
Thought me lots of things about Camera & Photography.
And Accompany me when I need someone to talk to.
^^

Thanks~
I'm lucky to have a Bro like you~


BODOH ! ! ! !

And ya . . .
Once again I fall in life and I collapse and I cry . . .
For what?
Not my love.
But my friendship. . . .
I dunno when I will really have a friend who will be there when I need her.
I dunno when I will not have to go through all these pain again.

I've learn my lesson (for now)
There is no true friend you can really rely on. (the fact)
I still want a friend who I can rely on. (I still believe there is someone out there I can rely on as a friend)

Cry cry cry . . .
Now, I need a bucket of ice-cream . . . =(

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

You're busy with assignment and exam . . .
I'm moody . . .
I cry . . .
I can't tell . . .
I let you do your work . . .
Today, I remain silence . . .
=(
I dislike not talking for the whole day...
=(
I'm not happy...
Don't like being alone...
Am I so extra in this world?
Do I really have to live my everyday life ALONE?
I HATE I HATE I HATE . . .
F*CK THIS WORLD =(

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

A sharing of thoughts~ ^^

Sometimes while I'm browsing through some friend's FB
I see people get in a relationship I feel happy for them...
Sometimes I see them went from in a relationship to single...
It make me feel sad...
But sometimes from their wall post I see that they can still be happy with the way it is and move on with their life...
It make me imagine how much tears has they lost...
How much pain do they feel...
Even with a smile on the face,I know its really aching inside =(
It really take a lot of courage to let go of the one you love and still put a smile on face and move on...
It its me...
I would cry like hell...
Get drunk...
Get hurt...
To release the pain in me...
I know its not good but still I will do it...
Because even the one I love and care so much has left me...
Who cares anyway what happen to me...

Ya,
You people might think that I'm very negative...
well I am =)
I'm very very negative~
I tend to think a lot...
If if if...
Bla bla bla~
Well~
Thats ME~

For those out there who has just got a broken heart ...
I feel sorry for u guys~
Well everything still has to go on...
Don't be afraid to cry...
After crying really can make you feel better ^^
SMILE and move on~
There is always someone waiting for you at the next junction ^^

Thursday, August 26, 2010

It has been almost 2 months that you've left to Mel...
And we've gone thru so many within this two months...
I know I can trust you...
But sometimes I'm just so scare...
There is always so many what if . . . . thats come into my mind...
I can't imagine my life if I lose you,DarliN...
I've got too far I cannot take it back anymore...
I cannot restrain myself from loving you anymore...
Now all I can do is to trust you and believe that we will be together till the end...
I am very confirm that if this relationship doesn't work out the way I want it to be...
If one day we really go on a seperate ways....
I would not live to see another day...
I love you too much that I would rather DIE if I cannot have you...
Can you know how much I love you?
Why do I always cry?
Because I love you...
Why do I always argue?
Because I care...
Why do I think of so many "What if?"
Because I'm scare...

DarliN,
If you read wat I've wrote...
All I want you to know is that...
I really love you with all my heart and you have all my trust...
I love you........very much...
And I miss you so badly...



Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Been thinking of you since the day we start dating...
Never once I didn't think of you...
I miss you,baby~
Miss you so very much...

T^T

Sunday, August 1, 2010

好想听你的声音
好想打电话给你

好想哭求你回来
但是我知道
我不可以
我不可以自私

好想大声的哭
把所有的一切哭出来

但是哭了
又有谁能了解
我心里的空虚感
哭了
又能填补我心里的空虚吗?

哭了
累了
坚强了


宝贝,我想你了
Darl =(
I knw you're busy with life in Aus
I knw you're dealing with lots of problem
But please
Once in a while
Give me some time
Say that you love me without me saying it first
Say that you miss me
Show that you care

I miss you so damn much ='(
But I couldn't tell
I couldn't show
Because I don't want to be a burden to you
I don't want you to be fed up with me

I love you
I always will

感动心灵.....宝贝!都是我的错!

男孩爱上了一个女孩,女孩也很喜欢他,渐渐的两个人走到了一起,同居了,当男孩的嘴第一次吻到女孩的唇时,女孩就决定这一辈子都跟定他了,于是女孩调皮的问:"你会爱我多久?"男孩捏着女孩的鼻子温柔的说:"你想要多久呢?" 女孩想了想天真的说:"那就一辈子吧,这一辈子你都不许喜欢别的女孩!"男孩笑着说:"嗯,好!"女孩又想了想嘟起小嘴:"不行!我不信你,我们拉勾勾,你要是反悔的话我到时候就杀了你!!!"男孩认真的回答:"好,假如有一天我背叛你,你就杀了我."...........

  就这样男孩和女孩在一起快三年了,他们彼此都深爱着对 方,可是天总是不如人愿,厄运终于降临在这对幸福的恋人 身上,渐渐的男孩对女孩开始逃避,冷落.再也不像以前那 么宠她了,女孩似乎觉察到了什么,于是就开始追问男孩, 可是男孩却没有说出原因,终于有一天,男孩突然带回一个既 时尚又性感还很漂亮的女人回来了,这时女孩还想骗自己, 就傻傻的问:"宝贝这是你的朋友吗???"男孩冷酷的说:" 是!而且是女朋友."女孩听了没有做任何反应,只是傻 傻的坐在那里,女孩不敢抬头看男孩,因为她怕眼泪会忍不 住的掉下来;她不想让男孩看到自己哭,因为她仍然相信男 孩还爱她."这时男孩冷冷的说:"今天晚上你在这里, 明天你搬走吧,今天我们两个出去住."说着两个人就想往外 走."等一下."女孩终于开口了,"姐姐你能不能出去一 下,我想单独和他谈."那女人点点头走了出去.男孩依然 背对着她,谁也没有说话;"为什么"女孩最先打破了沉默. 男孩冷漠的说:"不爱了,就不需要任何理由!"然后掉 头就走了;没有给女孩任何机会.女孩哭了,她告诉自己不 准掉一滴眼泪,可是那晶莹的泪花还是不听话的掉了下来........


过了好久,女孩再次见到男孩的时候,是在医院里,不同的是 两个人都瘦的不成样子了,女孩是因为伤心,想他得了胃炎, 而男孩怎么会在医院里出现呢??女孩因为心里仍然爱他,放 心不下,于是就悄悄的跟了上去.....

"病人如果再找不到合适的心脏进行移植,那我们将再也没有 能力维持他的生命了"医生对女人说,这时女孩惊呆了,傻 傻的楞在那里,女人哭了,女孩也哭了,女孩再一次为男孩 流下了泪水 ,可是这一次比上一次更加伤心,更加歇斯底里,女孩痴痴的 坐在窗前眼泪不停的往下掉,突然她站了起来,走到桌前拿 起笔在纸上写了一些东西,然后她笑着拿起手机拨通了男孩 的电话,"喂"接电话的是个女的,"你好我想见见他可以 吗???求你给我这次机会好吗?"女人钝了钝说:"好吧. 在哪里,我转告他.""在我们第一次见面的公园,谢谢" 女孩挂掉电话后就匆忙的出去了.男孩如约来到了他们初次见 面的公园,可是过了好久女孩还是没有出现,男孩焦急的等 着,最后女孩还是没有出现,男孩失落的走了,女孩看着男孩远 去的背影,对自己说,不可以舍不得.......

过了几天男孩要进行心脏移植了,他兴奋的对女人说:"如果 成功了,我要做的第一件事就是去找她,告诉她事实."女人笑 了笑"但愿她不会拒绝你."......

男孩心脏真的移植成功了,他一醒来就忙着给女孩打电话,可 是却没人接,一次,两次,三次......男孩就这样一 直打,可是一直都没有人接,男孩沮丧的说:"她真的生气 了."女人安慰说;"不会的,她可能有事...

这时医生走进来笑着说;"你的命可真好,昨天那个女孩的遗 嘱点名要把心脏捐给你.她好像事先预料到自己要死,还写 了份遗嘱.""她是怎么死的."男孩问到."车祸,不过 真是可惜了,那女孩长的就跟个水晶娃娃似的,不知道怎么会出 这种事,听肇事司机说她是自己撞过来的@!"

这时男孩要求说:"我想去看看救我的人."医生迟疑了一下 点点头,"就是这个了.你们看吧.她的死像并不可怕,和 睡着了一样."男孩缓缓的揭开了盖在死者头上的白布,在 看到死者脸的一刹那,男孩和女人都僵在了那里,恍惚间男 孩的心疼了一下,他像疯了一样扯下死者身上的白布,哭喊 着"怎么会这样,不会的!宝贝你起来呀不要吓我!!!不 可能的.姐我在做梦对不对???你告诉我!!!宝贝我要 得不是这样.你快醒醒呀宝贝!"女人扯过男孩给了他一耳 光,流着泪说:"你醒醒吧!"要不是你她怎么会这样,是你害 了她!她是在用她的生命去爱你!"....

男孩呆呆的看着女孩眼神变得异常温柔,他看到女孩嘴角还带 着笑,笑得那么从容,男孩又一次哭了.看着女孩那还有点 点血迹的衣服,看着她那白的像雪的手,突然男孩发现女孩 的手里攥着一团纸,打开一看是女孩写给自己的信:亲爱的, 对不起,请你不要怪我好吗?我真的好爱你,那天你在公园等 我,我去了,只是没有露面,我就在你身后, 我想把你的一切牢牢的记在心里,因为我想下辈子我们还能在一起,虽然你这辈子没有履行诺言,但是我不怪你,因为我真的好爱你,即使你不在爱我,可是我的心会在你的身体里面一辈子,这个位置是任何人都占据不了的.亲爱的,一定要幸福哦.我把我的幸福全部都给了你,但是你下辈子一定要让我幸福,好吗?亲爱的,答应我下辈子不要再抛弃我了好吗?今生的诺言我们来世再履行.亲爱的,再见了,祝你幸福...

"不,宝贝,没有你我要怎么幸福!你醒过来好吗?我们从新 开始,我错了,对不起,我从来都没有不爱你,宝贝!我.. 错了!....你回来呀"男孩失声痛哭起来.这时正有个灵 魂坐在他的身旁流着泪,高兴的说:"原来你还爱我, 你一直都爱着我 ."灵魂试图抱住男孩,可是却在他的身体里穿过...... 天下起了小雨,男孩哭了,灵魂哭了,上帝也哭了....

Saturday, July 31, 2010

心里空虚的感觉又有谁能了解,又能对谁述说???

Friday, July 30, 2010

5th Semester Result~

YESH!!!!!

I pass all my subjects~~
Weeee~~~~

Thanks God for listening to my prayer.
I promise I will do better in future.
Please guide me through all the challenges I will face in future~

God is Love.
God is strength.
The power or prayer.


Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Jewel-Satisfied
A very nice song


Satisfied [Lyrics]

IF YOU LOVE SOMEBODY
YOU BETTER LET IT OUT
DON'T HOLD IT BACK
WHILE YOU'Re TRYING TO FIGURE IT OUT
DON'T BE TIMID
DON'T BE AFRAID TO HURT
RUN TOWARD THE FLAME
RUN TOWARD THE FIRE
HOLD ON FOR ALL YOUR WORTH
THE ONLY REAL PAIN A HEART CAN EVER KNOW
IS THE SORROW OF REGRET
WHEN YOU DON'T LET YOUR FEELINGS SHOW

[CHORUS]
SO DID YOU SAY IT
DID YOU MEAN IT
DID YOU LAY IT ON THE LINE
DID YOU MAKE IT COUNT
DID YOU LOOK ‘EM IN THE EYE
DID THEY FEEL IT
DID YOU SAY IT IN TIME
DID YOU SAY IT OUT LOUD
‘CAUSE IF YOU DID HUN
THEN YOU LIVED SOME
THAT FEELING INSIDE
IS CALLED SATISFIED

BUSY PEOPLE WALKING BY
CAN'T HELP BUT WORRY SOME
WITH SO MANY THINGS TO DO
SO LITTLE LOVE GETS DONE
EMPTY HEARTS EVERYWHERE
DROWNING BUT DYING OF THIRST
IF YOU WANT LOVE
IT'S NOT THAT TOUGH
START BY GIVING IT FIRST
IT'S SO EASY TO GIVE
BABY CAN'T YOU SEE
JUST CLOSE YOUR EYES OPEN YOUR HEART
AND DO WHAT COMES NATURALLY

[CHROUS]
WELL DID YOU SAY IT
DID YOU MEAN IT
DID YOU LAY IT ON THE LINE
DID YOU MAKE IT COUNT
DID YOU LOOK ‘EM IN THE EYE
DID THEY FEEL IT
DID YOU SAY IT IN TIME
DID YOU SAY IT OUT LOUD
'CAUSE IF YOU DID HUN
THEN YOU LIVED SOME
THAT FEELING INSIDE
IS CALLED SATISFIED

BRIDGE
HORSES ARE BUILT TO RUN
THE SUN IS MEANT TO SHINE ABOVE
FLOWERS ARE MADE TO BLOOM
AND THEN THERE'S US
WE WERE BORN TO LOVE

Sunday, July 25, 2010

I'm moody.
I don't understand why you always online so late.
I wanna chat with you longer.
I'm not satisfied with only 1 hours online with you everyday.
We are thousand miles apart,DarliN.
Can you understand how I feel.
There is so much I want to tell you.
But I'm so scare to burden you with my love with my selfishness.

**Love is to love the bad & good of the person you love**

I forgive & forget because I love you.
You're precious to me.
You're the only one that matters to me.
You're all that I have in mind & heart.


I love you.
I miss you.



You just love to spoil me~
I'm such a spoiled girlfriend <3
I love you always always~




Thursday, July 22, 2010

After all that we've been through~
I love you more~


[21/04/09]

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

很希望他的父母能了解我的心情
好想他
好久没听到他的声音了
我爱他
很爱很爱



Saturday, July 17, 2010

GOD's Child~

Leave everything in GOD's hand . . .
Everything happens for a reason . . .
Thanks GOD for better or for worse . . .

I'm strong because I'm GOD's child . . .

Love
Hope
Faith





Challenges~

Today is the 20th Days since you left . . .
So many things had happen within this 20 days . . .
Its such a big challenge to me & you . . .

I leave everything in the hand of God . . .
Because I knw . . .
Everything happen for a reason . . .

I love you DarliN~
I miss you~

I'm yours forever~




XoXo,
DearDear~





3 more days to our 15th Monthsary~


Friday, June 18, 2010

~9 more days~


No matter what happen . . .

I
Will
ALWAYS
Love
You


I
Promise



You
Know
I
Mean
What
I
Say



I
Never
Lie



Trust
Me



Faith~
Trust~



I love you,babyy~~


XoXo,
SophiaStephanie~
<3

Saturday, May 29, 2010

29 days left

There is so many to do
So many to tell
So many love to show
So many things we've plan to do it TOGETHER

But

Too little time left

Maybe letting you go is another my other way of showing I love you . . .
I really hope you know my love for you is true . . .
Never wanted to let you go . . .
But I have to . . .
For our better Future together . . .


Too Many Love
Too Little Time



XoXo,
SophiaStephanie
Your one and only Love~

米修米修~( miss you miss you~) <3

Monday, May 17, 2010

New semester starts today~
Class starts tomorrow~

Short semester this semester~

Gambatek Gambatek ~!!!!


No idea what i have in mind now.
Too many to do and too little time.
Too many to tell but too little time.
Too many to show but too little time.


Too many too many but too little time.


Accept me for who I am.
I am who I am.

Take it
OR
Leave it~



Being left alone is really Lonely . . .








XoXo,
littl3d3mon~
Sophia Stephanie~



P/S: I'll be right here waiting for you~

Monday, May 3, 2010

Love?

Have anyone of you fall in love with two person at a time?
XD

This feeling.
Its weird.
Dunno which one to hold on to.
And which one to let go.

Both love u so much.
Both have their good and bad.

You love both.
But just dunno wat to do.



littl3d3mon~

Monday, February 15, 2010

Lots of ups n downs lately~
Thanks for coming back to my side babyy~
I love you now and always~

Thanks GOD for leading me thru all the challenges i've faced lately~


I'm strong because I'm GOD's Child~



SophiaStephanie~

Friday, January 1, 2010

天枰座の女生





   天秤座是出现美女机率最高的一个星座。事实上,天秤座的女人多数都能拥有着一种优雅的气质。她们几乎可以说是“男人”和“女人”的综合体。在外表上总是 掌握了优雅精致的女人味,而思想上又有着丰富逻辑观念的男性智能。更理想的是,天秤座女人很少会有抢着出风头的表现。她们往往懂得把自己的智能隐藏在怡人 的女性温柔之后,绝不让它尖锐地刺伤男性的自尊。因此,无论是对同性或是异性而言,她们都是不可多得的好伴侣。

  至于该如何才能赢得芳心呢?当然,首先你得是个很合乎逻辑的男人。太过于固执、偏激、情绪化的人,都不是天秤座女子心目中的好伴侣。对于大多数的天秤 座女子来说,人生第一重要的事莫过于找个“好伴儿”。“孤单”是她的第一恐惧。所有美好的事物都因有人分享而真的有意义。可想而知,天秤座女人对于选择她 的“伴儿”尤其是终生的伴侣,该是多么严谨啦。

  你最好是有着高尚品味的男人,因为多数的天秤座女子都是对于“美感”极有鉴赏力的。穿着红毛衣绿裤子,戴着紫色小帽的男人恐怕会跟天秤座的女人缘分薄些。生活习惯不佳、油头垢面的男人机会也不大。当然,风度翩翩、文质彬彬的男性,肯定会是天秤座女子的最爱。

  再者,如果你是一个不喜欢女人说话的男人,那你恐怕也不适合天秤座的女人。我绝不是说她们喜欢吱喳个不停。事实上还真的很少有天秤座的女人会给人聒噪 的印象。只是几乎所有的天秤座女性都拥有着天生的辩才。她很会说话,很喜欢与人讨论,分析事情条条有理。而且很多时侯,的确能给你一些帮助。因为,她往往 喜欢从各种角度去分析事情,找出一个客观而公正的结论。

  天秤座女性不喜欢太过情绪化的人,当然她本身也绝不是爱闹情绪的人。因为她是那么的“讲道理”。她喜欢跟别人讲道理,更时时刻刻跟自己讲道理。但是人 总归是有情绪的,而世间的事(尤其是感情的事),也不是每一样都有道理说得通的。在这样的时侯,天秤座女子的秤臂就大幅的摇摆起来了。你不必紧张,更不必 不费唇舌的跟她讲道理(那可是她的专常)。多一点温柔体贴,多些甜蜜爱意。很快的,她就会恢复原本的均衡美感了。

  很多天秤座女生在情绪不稳定的时侯,会有暴饮暴食的倾向。我有个天秤座女友,经常在我们之间扮演婚姻爱情顾问的角色。她的理性客观深得我们的信赖。没 想到有一天她竟然爱上了一个朋友们都反对,而且客观条件确实大有问题的男人。我们的劝阻,自然没多大用处。因为每次辩论起来,大家都不是她的对手。所有的 缺点都能给她说成优点。不料,半年之后,那个男人竟突然弃她而去,娶了个富家小姐。刚遭到这个打击的时侯,她沮丧的样子,让朋友都担心她会从此消沉下去。 大家都自动轮流陪在她身边。两个月的暴饮暴食,她胖了十三公斤,但心情却渐渐平静了下来,不久后认识了现在的“他”,一切的一切,包括身材,就全都恢复 了。

  对于面对多变的人世,天秤座的女子有着极佳的平衡感。几乎任何情况之下,她总能找到让自己心里平衡的办法。这一点,对于她的男伴来说,实在是不可多得 的优点。也正因如此,许多天秤座女性在婚后都能成为丈夫事业上的好帮手。我说过,天秤座女子极为重视“伴侣”的观念,所以,她们不论在生活上,或是在事业 上,都致力做一个好的合伙人。而且,天秤座女性绝不会跟你抢着做董事长。

  如果你在事业上并不需要她的协助,我仍然建议你让她在婚后自由发展她的事业。一来,单纯的家庭主妇生活,对于聪明的天秤座女人来说似乎太无聊了些。她 恐怕会需要更多的玩伴来排遣她的孤单感。而且,把你自己变成她唯一的辩论对象,显然有点自讨没趣。二来,天秤座女人通常都需要“足够”金钱,去满足她追“ 美”的欲望。我不能说天秤座女子一定有些挥霍。但我肯定绝大多数天秤座女子的品味都不“便宜”。所以,让她能够自给自足,你会轻松不少。更何况她们确实都 是很有工作能力的。

  她是个以夫为重的女人。她可以做一个温柔可爱的小妻子,也可以是陪你共创事业的哥儿们。她可靠而不自夸。给你最好的建议,却永远不抢你的风采。她的稳 定性很够,没有许多女人任性、骄纵、不可理喻的缺点,她是许多丈夫们又敬又爱的妻子典型。只要你偶尔有耐性,听她振振有辞的训你一小时(这种情况,凭良心 说并不太多)。当有人使她的秤臂强烈摇摆的时侯,给她温柔浪漫的安慰,尤其她在大吃大喝的时侯,你就该意识到,这是你该有所表现的时侯了。对她来说,你的 耐心关怀就是万灵丹,只要适时服下,她立刻就能恢复原本均衡优雅的形象。难怪有好多人说说,能娶到一个天秤座的女人,真是“褔气”啦!
Say Bye Bye to 2009
Hello~~~~ 2010~!!!